A long-winded update for anyone interested:
Really struggled to find a semi synthetic 75W-90, as I was convinced this was best for these Aisin transmissions. Extra S was a semi synthetic and hailed as the best.
All the popular synthetics had some bad reviews. Went through all the (limited) semi synthetic, non-LS options. Made it all the way to the stuff Porsche guys run since some of their transaxles are made by Aisin; Shell Spirax S5 or Mobil Mobilube PTX. Factory spec'd oil. Very difficult to find. Porsche sells it under their Part #'s and used to disclose what it was, but after superseding the numbers no longer does. A lot of speculation and misinformation on forums, mostly stemming from dealer assumptions.
Porsche has Part #'s for 1L and 20L containers, and a few Porsche shops figured out which 20L one pertains to PTX, or more likely, saw the name written on Mobil's container they received for the respective Part #. Individual liters sell at a premium of $200 for five to my door. Or... I could source a 20L container from UK for "not much more". Use what I need and sell/store the rest.
Realized I was nuts, so back to square one to go over my options again. Found Eneos makes (made) one that would be perfect. NAPA had a great deal on 5qts for under $60. When I saw the bottles, noticed the manufacture date; three 8 years old and two 5. Clearly long discontinued and unusable. Returned them.
Set out to find out what the 1L Porsche Part #'s are for the Spirax or PTX because at this point I had my heart set on it and it's the cheapest option. Got Porsche Transmission Oil Part # 000-043-305-49 (suspected Spirax). Emailed Porsche Germany to get confirmation. All they'd say is it's made by Shell AG. That was good enough for me. This was most likely S5 ATE, because it's the only one of the Spirax line spec'd for cars and transaxles, and the only one "Approved by Porsche and Ferrari for transaxles".
Now that I have the Part #, where to buy. Most places in the states were expensive. More or less $200 shipped. More searching led me to a shop called Rose Passion in France. I know, but not only are they legit, they're well known in the Porsche community. Got 5L for $140 landed within a few days. Only ended up needing 4L.
What I found with most oils, and the reason I passed on them even though cheaper and easier to obtain, is viscosity at 40°C. Most are quite viscous, close to or over 100 cSt. Including the Mobil Delvac I was running, also popular among the Porsche crowd, but moreso for track use since it's factory fill in their GT3 cars. In colder temps, like what we've been having lately, it was super notchy and crunchy. Also, after working through the gears a lot and getting the trans hot, it almost felt non-existent, like it wasn't there anymore and there was metal on metal contact. Felt horrible. Although it always went into gear, there was some resistance which made shifts slower, making shifting less smooth.
The trans drain plug did have a good amount of gunk on it. More than I would've thought for the just over 15k miles run. Less so on the diff plug. Fluid appeared cloudy and pretty dark especially out of the diff.
Posting this update a bit prematurely as I haven't put a lot of miles on it but can say there's an immediate difference. The crunch that would especially happen in 1st and 3rd is gone. Doesn't feel 'dry' like before and more 'cushioned'. This Spirax S5 ATE has a 40°C viscosity of 81 cSt. Delvac is 120 cSt and a full synthetic, which seem to degrade quickly. No wonder it started feeling bad and sucked in colder temps.
I overthink and geek out on stuff like this so take it how you will. Not expecting this to become the next best thing but if it helps someone down the road I'd be happy. Also if someone wants a sealed 1L bottle lmk
TL;DR: Ended up going with Porsche Transmission Oil Part # 000-043-305-49. Semi synthetic. Porsche Germany confirmed it's made by Shell, which is most likely Spirax S5 ATE. Huge improvement. Feels great so far with no crunch and smoother, faster shifts.