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I hope no one is offended by this but, how many times a week do you ... uh ... you know "Do it"? This is a topic of hot debate around my house these days, she sez its too little, I say its fine. 2-3 times a week seems to be the average. I'm extremely busy with my work (IT Director) and our schedules never meet up well. Is this too little in anyone elses opinion? BTW- we live together, if that makes a difference...
 

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I hope no one is offended by this but, how many times a week do you ... uh ... you know "Do it"? This is a topic of hot debate around my house these days, she sez its too little, I say its fine. 2-3 times a week seems to be the average. I'm extremely busy with my work (IT Director) and our schedules never meet up well. Is this too little in anyone elses opinion? BTW- we live together, if that makes a difference...
Err... haven't been married long have you!? ;)

Sounds like a little firecracker you've got there...
 

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When you get time watch Love Stinks.It is a must see for people who are about to get married.Ilaughed my @$$ off and gave a standing ovation at the end.:)
 

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I just looked at an apartment with my g/f of over 3.5 years.

I can't comment on how it'll be when we live together, but I hoping for 3-4 per week. :D

-Jim
 

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I've been with my hubby since I turned 18. We've been together for about 7 1/2 years and I am lucky if I even get any once every 2 weeks. Lucky for me there are "mechanical alternatives";)

When we initially started out I'd get at least 5 sessions a week and we didn't even live together. Each of them averaging about 3-4 hours.:D Now I can only reminice(is that the way you spell it?). I keep him around just in case he gets a second wind or something(JK)

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It's really a shame that men reach their peak so early on because I missed out on my husbands peak by 6 years.:( :(

Toulman, you've only been together for two years, Don't go cheap on the sex yet.

By the way, my husband used to be a Director of IT and had to travel all over the country but he still managed to "slip me into his schedule" even when he couldn't come home. I mean, that's why you've got blinds in your office. Even if you can't have sex often at least make it interesting. For example, "Take her to your office building sometime after regular hours and do it in one of the nice conference rooms or something. Just make sure there aren't any cameras or bring your own.:p. I find that making sex interesting, sometimes compensates for not getting it often. Give it a try.
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Kira said:
When we initially started out I'd get at least 5 sessions a week and we didn't even live together. Each of them averaging about 3-4 hours.:D Now I can only reminice(is that the way you spell it?). I keep him around just in case he gets a second wind or something(JK)
OH SO CLOSE, it's "reminisce" damn, you only missed it be ONE LETTER. :D

It is really unfair that men reach their peak in their early 20s (or sooner) and women dont' reach it until late 30s. What's up with that? Some kind of cruel cosmic trick!!! :mad:

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Um, I'm turning 30 on Sunday and my peak has yet to be reached- I just seem to get hornier and hornier- I don't know what this "peak" thingy is all about at all:D

I'm married and it's been almost every day- if she's not up for "it", then she's at least willing to give me an alternative to Rosy Palm;)

By the way, a buddy of mine who'se been married a long time says pregnancy didn't affect his wife's sex drive at all- which is ggod news to me, because we're talking about procreating in the next year or so...
 

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Kira said:

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When we initially started out I'd get at least 5 sessions a week and we didn't even live together. Each of them averaging about 3-4 hours.:D Now I can only reminice(is that the way you spell it?). I keep him around just in case he gets a second wind or something(JK)
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Sounds familiair. Actually I think this is common for a lot of long-time couples. Emphasis does tend to move away from solely being about the physical aspect to having a more rounded companionship.

At least, that's my justification for why I don't get much action any more. ;)

-Pace
 

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hmmm responses seem to run the gamit. Maybe im not so weird... Thanks for the info guys, and gals. Maybe ill try that "in the office" Idea.

Thanks again
 

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what a bunch of raunchy pervs :eek:, you all should join a forum dealing with this subject ;)

haha, thanks for the entertainment from the 'what is sex anyway? single guy'!
 

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What is sex anyway single guy? When I was single, I knew what sex was- it was that thing other people did in the porn I downloaded ;)
 

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I think it all very different for different people. For a while I was lucky when it was once or twice a month. When I first met my wife it was once or twice a day. Now other than "that time of the month" we are at 2 or 3 times a week couple. Having a baby slowed it down for a few years. Yes, I said a few years. We seem to be back in the swing now. I will say when they want more, don't miss the jackpot you have there!
 

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Porn rules- promised my wife I'd give it up- but with her, it's no problem- she keeps me SSSSSatisfied;)
 

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I think Porn is funny. I find it hard to believe that people get turned on by it. When my hubbie and I watch porn, we mute the sound and we start making up dialogue as it progresses. Kind of like that show with the robots that make fun of B movies.(Something Science theatre 2000 is the name of that show I think).

Porn is also depressing because then it makes you wonder, "How come my man can't pick me up and twist me into a pretzel, like that?"

Nobody should be forced to give up porn. It's just too funny.:)
 

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Didn't even have to look to see that was a woman- "porn is funny"= women don't get it- didn't know it was Mystery Science Theatre 3000- probably doesn't like the 3 Stooges either- heee, hee, hee
 

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I don't know MST3K either, just heard of it.

Also, I think 95% of porn is junk. Maybe I'm not a typical guy, but I need it to seem somewhat real, and most porn is far from real. If it feels like everyone is just acting, or too much focus on organs, I don't enjoy it much. When I was younger I wasn't as picky. Maybe it is just the need to see something new, and most of this stuff is the same old images.
 
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