1. ) So I'm looking to put a muffler delete
2. )I don't want the car obnoxiously loud
3. ) I can't afford a full exhaust and a tune (I have kids)
4. )so this is the best option
5. )What would you guys recommend
1 and 2 are directly conflicting.
For number 3 you don't need a full exhaust for a noise maker. Catback exhausts don't require a tune as they don't modify the downpipe. You also don't have to worry about making your children deaf.
Number 4, no. If you can't afford something it's not in your best interest to cheap out.
5? I'd recommend saving some money and finding a good invidia, Cobb, or ets exhaust.