I assumed Snowvert was interested in the Work wheels since he posted a pic of them. Either way, any wheel can break be-it Volk or Rota. In fact I remember reading a few threads a while back about the SSR Competition's being somewhat "soft" and bending easily. Any product can be defective.
My vote is the SSR Comps' or Volk LE37T's. I know you had the TE37's on you past car, but they're still super light wheels with great looks.