i just attempted to install the kartboy short shifter in my car. The stock shifter came out easily but I've been unable to get the kartboy into the socket. I've tried hammering it, as well as connecting the linkage and then pulling/pushing the shifter. I've heard of people having trouble putting the ball into the socket, but i had no idea it was this difficult. Can anybody explain exactly the method more pulling the shifter back into place when the linkage is attached?