Ok so I had my car in the shop this past saturday and got some new info.
Had it in for a/c but while I was there I had him pull the datalog. when the last misfires happened (See post #12) I was turning right from a stop the log showed that all 4 misfires (which according to the log were simultaneous) occured at 1000 RPM at no boost.
Well luckily for me the mechanic that works on my car owns a wrx himself (same year and model) that is a full on rally car and he runs his own rally shop so he knows his stuff when it comes to subies. He wondered if maybe it has something to do with the ECM update that was put out awhile back, since I bought my car used I have no clue whether it was ever updated.
I called subaru (what fun) gave them my VIN and they stated "there is no ecu update for your vehicle" now that didn't make sense so I asked for the production date of my car and they told me it was April of 2001 so shouldnt the ECM reprogramming apply to my vehicle? I can't find much info about it (searched here and nasioc)